跟Alex去超市买菜，于是看到了这个！情人节可以不要花了，买个苹果吧！

情人节快乐！交杯酒喝起！哈哈

昨晚，叫Alex：宝贝儿。问我什么意思，我说是baby，加一个儿in the end。然后那货就开始一直叫：老婆儿，老婆儿，老婆儿……

昨晚跟 Alex熬夜看了一部电影，明日边缘。差不多一点半去睡觉，然后两个人聊天。不知道几点睡去。早上醒来突然意识到今天是2.20，Alex刚好是3.20生日。之前说想要在Alex回去之前买个蛋糕给他，不然回去就没机会帮他庆祝，所以打算今天刚好去买个蛋糕帮他庆祝。
于是我急忙起床，跟他说我先下楼。这货肯定要睡到很晚，赶紧洗了个头，画个淡妆出门。
到了蛋糕店，选了个蛋糕，十寸。要一个小时现做。于是跟老妈去菜场买了菜，一点去拿蛋糕，路上还下起淅沥的小雨。
本来还想回家藏冰箱里，然后晚上给他一个惊喜，可是因为下雨只能让老爸送伞来，谁知老爸带着Alex去他工作的别墅区参观（买不起，看看也行，那货回来跟我说看了以后更激起他奋斗的激情了。）所以只能提前让他知道我给他买了蛋糕。
晚上，老爸做好饭，开吃了，Alex打开蛋糕，点蜡烛，关灯，唱生日快乐歌。简单，但我相信会是他刻骨铭心的一个生日！
也是他第一个生日蛋糕呢！

早上11:10的飞机。四个月后再见！

每逢佳节胖三斤。

来勤快更贴啦。

然后那货跟我说自己感觉stressful,然后本打算出去走走透气的，后来在路边找路人要了根烟。
我问你怎么问得，然后他说自己就是看到一个人朝他做了一个抽烟的手势，那人就给他了。
虽然生气，但是也没有大吵。
然后晚上把他叫进房间，本来想跟他好好说说，想说自己可以理解他为什么抽烟，可谁知那货竟然开始为自己推脱，说自己感觉压力大，（因为在中国不能上国外的网站，但是自己还需要写博客，做网站），完全没有意识到自己的错误。（其实有时候发现他有些事情挺喜欢找理由借口的，好好承认错误就好呀,可能有些人觉得抽一根没什么，但是从认识在一起到现在都没抽烟，这次竟然抽了，那种感觉就好像是你认定的事情完完全全不一样了）
然后我就说了，这次原谅你，下次如果再抽烟我们就不要在一起了。那货竟然跟我说了一句看来你并不是那么爱我。
擦擦擦，战火开始了。
其实我的想法是：这是更像是威胁或者什么的，不知道用什么词语形容那种心态。反正就是希望以此来让他不要再抽烟。
而他的想法则是：你就因为我抽烟就会轻易地离开我，看来是没那么爱我了。
我出于爱他，让他不要抽烟，影响健康才那么说，他理解成我因为不够爱他才会轻易放弃。
其实想想有时候一件事，一句话不同理解真会有不同的结果。
最后的最后，不知道吵了多久，我说我们不要在一起了，然后作势要出去沙发睡觉。
然后他就抱着我说自己理解我为什么那么说了，说自己再也不会抽烟了，说自己如果知道我会有这么大的反应就不会抽烟了。
怎么说呢，其实吵吵也好。我觉得刚开始吵架，他理解成我说那样的话是不够爱他，可能也算是观念思想不一样吧。
不知道你们对这次吵架的看法是什么样呢？

然后在温州的时候基本没什么特别的事情了。二月七号放假回家。
回来之前托管小朋友寒假作业其中一个是数学手抄报，因为Alex学艺术，帮了大忙呀。

Good morning my bestest angel in this universe/拥抱/拥抱/亲亲/亲亲, i really missed you so so much my girl/委屈 i had a very good time at my sisters today and was nice to see eachother again after a while/可爱she cooked us a nice pasta meal with some nice garlic bread, taste so nice and i really think she cook the best lasagne pasta dish ever/饥饿 her children really liked my gift toy that i gave them/呲牙 haha you know they couldnt even work out at first how to open it up because you and me fold them and they just could not know how to open them out straight to start it off but i showed them how to do it and turn it carefully without break it and finally they knew how to/呲牙so funny watching them see how they do it, you can see the pictures on facebook on my sister tani page and you can see what they been trying to make, its been good fun there today/呲牙 i gave her the chinese cup in the end and she did like it but she said she wouldn't use it/委屈 she then decided to give it to her boyfriend to use instead which is ok with me i guess but was really meant to be a special gift for her that i thought she would like/委屈kind of hurt my feeling a little when she said she wouldnt use it much but its ok i guess not everyone would like some gift maybe and i tried to feel better about it. i tried to ring you about 2:15 in my time and it said that the phone number i tried did not exist and then i suddenly realized that we both have new mobile phones and i never put your new number in my new phone yet because you never gave me your new phone number/呲牙you got a new phone and i think you should give me your new number tomorrow so that i can ring you whenever i want/委屈i give you mine tomorrow too if you dont have mine, i really missed you and really wanted to call you so much, i must have tried nearly 8 times to call you and thought you might have been angry with me but really you were ok in the end and wished i had a nice day with my sister, was nice of you to send me that message/可爱wish you got enough sleep in the end my best girl and dont blame you wanting an early sleep, will also get an early sleep tonight too, get all my energy back ready for the busy and exciting next week mmmm/坏笑gonna do some really good work and try my best but for now i will relax and just do normal computer work tomorrow, cant wait see you again and hope you miss me always, i love you the deepest and you my best angel, i love you alot, take care and have a nice day/拥抱/拥抱/亲亲/亲亲/亲亲/亲亲see you soon my lao po er。可以锻炼阅读理解了！

总感觉我要弃帖了。

小朋友终于放假了，搞了一个星期作业后我们也回洞头了，准备开开心心过大年了！
其实Alex说过有点怕回洞头，因为第一，过年都是亲戚一群，他因为不会中文，怕自己尴尬。第二就是每次洞头都是他中国之旅的最后一站，接着就是回英国。
可是年总得过的吧。
于是收拾行李，我能说咱们也是太能磨了嘛，硬是到了下午四五点才收好行李，这是回家赶晚饭点啊。

回到洞头，Alex脸上的笑也多了起来，我们也不吵架了。
前两天老妈没回来，自己做了几顿饭。
记得上个暑假还信誓旦旦地承诺要每天给Alex做饭，可是天气实在是太热了，臣妾做不到啊！！！
每天睡到自然醒，很幸福！
记得有一次，早上我先醒来，看到他还在睡，想着把他叫醒。于是爬到他身上对着嘴巴亲了下去，他惊了一下，睁开眼睛一看是我，温暖地说早上好。
我：是不是吓到你了。
他：我喜欢你这样把我叫醒。

有没有温州的，一起去五马街逛街啊，这么好的天气要一个人逛街过。