随意发挥，来贴一段外国德金迷写的原因~
I love D/G because they have the potential to challenge and grow together while still staying true to themselves.
In my mind, it all comes down to the chemistry factor, as Rowan beautifully described above, just perhaps a different aspect than the opposite attracts. I like to think that if they got together they would have to be a little older, say in their early twenties, just that little bit more mature and able to think about being with the other person. For though they do have a lot of the same qualities, they are expressed in such different ways that they don't have a whole lot in common in the general social circle of their environment.
I think they would both have conflicts over their prejudices about money and status. In order for them to work through that in a realistic way they need to be a little more world savvy, and that only comes with experience, which takes time.
So I think the thing that will carry them through these types of difficulties is the fact that they can appreciate each others differences, use them against each other (whether in play or confrontation) but have that thing that holds them together and keeps them from killing each other. That thing is the undeniable attraction to each other that is always smoldering just below the surface. That inner burning part of themselves that knows that even if they fight, they are still together and they will have to learn how to work through it.
Luckily, in the books they are both left open enough that we all get to give him/her the attributes that we most desire for ourselves.
I love D/G because they have the potential to challenge and grow together while still staying true to themselves.
In my mind, it all comes down to the chemistry factor, as Rowan beautifully described above, just perhaps a different aspect than the opposite attracts. I like to think that if they got together they would have to be a little older, say in their early twenties, just that little bit more mature and able to think about being with the other person. For though they do have a lot of the same qualities, they are expressed in such different ways that they don't have a whole lot in common in the general social circle of their environment.
I think they would both have conflicts over their prejudices about money and status. In order for them to work through that in a realistic way they need to be a little more world savvy, and that only comes with experience, which takes time.
So I think the thing that will carry them through these types of difficulties is the fact that they can appreciate each others differences, use them against each other (whether in play or confrontation) but have that thing that holds them together and keeps them from killing each other. That thing is the undeniable attraction to each other that is always smoldering just below the surface. That inner burning part of themselves that knows that even if they fight, they are still together and they will have to learn how to work through it.
Luckily, in the books they are both left open enough that we all get to give him/her the attributes that we most desire for ourselves.
