听楼主说这个的时候,我突然想起一个电影里铁娘子老年的时候说的一些话,不知道楼主有没有看过。。。。如下。。watch your thoughs,for they become words. watch your words,for the become your actions . watch your actions,for they become your habits.watch your habits ,for they become your character. and watch your character ,for it become your destiny.what we think ,we become. ///支持楼主。